{"id":95,"date":"2016-03-22T06:42:00","date_gmt":"2016-03-22T06:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/adamestii.ro\/index.php\/2016\/03\/22\/draga-ilinca-6\/"},"modified":"2024-03-12T12:27:38","modified_gmt":"2024-03-12T12:27:38","slug":"draga-ilinca-6","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adamestii.ro\/index.php\/2016\/03\/22\/draga-ilinca-6\/","title":{"rendered":"Drag\u0103 Ilinca, (6)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ieri a fost ziua \u00een care mi-ai spus, printre lacrimi \u0219i muci, c\u0103 tu nu vrei s\u0103 te duci acas\u0103, dup\u0103 \u0219coal\u0103. Am sim\u021bit vorbele astea ale tale ca pe un pumn \u00een stomac, dat cu furie de cineva care m\u0103 ur\u0103\u0219te. Mi-a\u0219 dori s\u0103 nu auzi niciodat\u0103 o astfel de vorb\u0103 de la fiica ta. \u0218i mi-a\u0219 mai dori s\u0103 fi fost prima \u0219i ultima oar\u0103 c\u00e2nd am auzit a\u0219a ceva de la tine. Cum bine \u021bi-ai dat seama \u0219i singur\u0103, f\u0103c\u00e2nd acel exerci\u021biu de imagina\u021bie, nu e a\u0219a vreo mare scofal\u0103 s\u0103 pleci de acas\u0103. Eu n-am s\u0103 uit cur\u00e2nd cum povesteai ce ai face tu dac\u0103 ai pleca de acas\u0103, cu lacrimile \u0219iroind pe obraji. Pentru c\u0103, pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce povesteai, \u00ee\u021bi d\u0103deai seama c\u0103 nu e o idee chiar a\u0219a de bun\u0103 s\u0103 pleci de acas\u0103… E\u0219ti un copil de\u0219tept \u0219i po\u021bi mai mult de at\u00e2t. \u0218i pentru noi, p\u0103rin\u021bii t\u0103i, e important s\u0103 realizezi singur\u0103 care ar putea fi consecin\u021bele alegerilor tale. Via\u021ba o s\u0103 te pun\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 cu situa\u021bii diverse \u00een care primul t\u0103u impuls ar putea fi s\u0103 te ascunzi. Doar c\u0103 fuga nu e o solu\u021bie \u0219i nu are ce s\u0103 caute pe lista op\u021biunilor tale. Sunt convins\u0103 c\u0103 ieri ai \u00een\u021beles \u0219i asta. Te rog s\u0103 \u021bii minte ziua de ieri. \u0218i, de fiecare dat\u0103, s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi aminte\u0219ti c\u0103 noi, mama \u0219i tata, te iubim necondi\u021bionat. \u0218i vom fi aici, l\u00e2ng\u0103 tine, p\u00e2n\u0103 la sf\u00e2r\u0219itul vie\u021bii noastre.<\/p>\n

Fiecare v\u00e2rst\u0103 e o provocare. \u0218i pentru tine \u0219i pentru mine. Tu m\u0103 aju\u021bi s\u0103 devin un om mai bun. Nu e u\u0219or s\u0103 fii p\u0103rinte, dar e frumos. Pentru c\u0103 pot \u0219i eu s\u0103 cresc o dat\u0103 cu tine. Pot s\u0103 devin un om mai bun. Pot s\u0103 \u00eemi dep\u0103\u0219esc limitele. Nu doar voi, copiii, pute\u021bi \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba ceva de la noi, adul\u021bii. \u0218i noi adul\u021bii putem \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba de la voi, copiii. Trebuie doar s\u0103 vrem, \u0219i unii \u0219i al\u021bii. S\u00e2mb\u0103t\u0103 am ales s\u0103 ne plimb\u0103m 200 de kilometri pentru a le face galerie colegelor tale mai mari de la volei, \u00een loc s\u0103 lenevim pe canapea \u00eentr-o zi friguroas\u0103. Poate c\u0103 eu a\u0219 fi ales leneveala, dar am considerat c\u0103 ar fi mai bine s\u0103 mergem, s\u0103 privim \u0219i s\u0103 analiz\u0103m cum va fi viitorul t\u0103u, dac\u0103 alegi s\u0103 mergi la volei \u00een continuare. \u0218i s\u0103 fim acolo, al\u0103turi de ni\u0219te copii desptep\u021bi, care prefer\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i consume energia \u00eentr-o sal\u0103 de sport.  Pentru c\u0103 noi, p\u0103rin\u021bii t\u0103i, \u00ee\u021bi vom respecta alegerile \u0219i te vom sus\u021bine \u0219i te vom ajuta s\u0103 fii mai bun\u0103. Te-am v\u0103zut c\u00e2t de concentrat\u0103 ai urm\u0103rit cum jucau colegele tale un pic mai mari. \u0218i te-am v\u0103zut c\u00e2t de iute ai \u021b\u00e2\u0219nit de pe banc\u0103 s\u0103 te bucuri al\u0103turi de ele c\u00e2nd au c\u00e2\u0219tigat. \u0218i mi-am dat seama c\u0103 a meritat plimbarea \u0219i c\u0103 tu ai \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat ceva. Faptul c\u0103 au pierdut al doilea meci nu mi s-a p\u0103rut un lucru chiar a\u0219a de r\u0103u, cum spuneau ceilal\u021bi c\u0103 ar fi. Da, poate c\u0103 au ratat o \u0219ans\u0103. Dar nu a fost ultima. Faptul c\u0103 o s\u0103 le vezi \u00een continuare la sal\u0103, la antrenamente, e o lec\u021bie. Despre perseveren\u021b\u0103 \u0219i curaj. Despre cum nu trebuie s\u0103 te la\u0219i descurajat\u0103 de un e\u0219ec. Mi-a\u0219 dori ca ori de c\u00e2te ori te sim\u021bi descurajat\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eencerci s\u0103 nu la\u0219i frica s\u0103 te cuprind\u0103. Ci s\u0103 te \u00eentrebi de ce \u021bi-e fric\u0103. Ce r\u0103u \u021bi se poate \u00eent\u00e2mpla. C\u00e2nd sim\u021bi c\u0103 te cuprinde teama, adu-\u021bi aminte de ce \u00ee\u021bi place s\u0103 joci volei. Alung\u0103 din minte imaginea unui e\u0219ec. \u00cenlocuie\u0219te-o cu imaginea unui atac reu\u0219it. Cu imaginea unei victorii. Spune-\u021bi c\u0103 VREI, PO\u021aI, \u0218TII. E u\u0219or s\u0103 la\u0219i frica s\u0103 te cuprind\u0103, dar frica e neproductiv\u0103, te epuizeaz\u0103 fizic \u0219i psihic. Mai bine te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti la calit\u0103\u021bile \u0219i atuurile tale.<\/p>\n

\u0218i nu uita c\u0103 to\u021bi patru form\u0103m o echip\u0103. Ne sus\u021binem, ne \u00eencuraj\u0103m, ne bucur\u0103m \u00eempreun\u0103, suferim \u00eempreun\u0103, g\u0103sim solu\u021bii \u00eempreun\u0103. Trebuie doar s\u0103 vrem.<\/p>\n

Cu \u00eencredere,
\nmama<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ieri a fost ziua \u00een care mi-ai spus, printre lacrimi \u0219i muci, c\u0103 tu nu vrei s\u0103 te duci acas\u0103, dup\u0103 \u0219coal\u0103. Am sim\u021bit vorbele astea ale tale ca pe un pumn \u00een stomac, dat cu furie de cineva care m\u0103 ur\u0103\u0219te. Mi-a\u0219 dori s\u0103 nu auzi niciodat\u0103 o astfel de vorb\u0103 de la fiica […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-95","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","category-scrisori-catre-ilinca"],"yoast_head":"\nDrag\u0103 Ilinca, (6) - Adame\u015ftii.ro<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/adamestii.ro\/index.php\/2016\/03\/22\/draga-ilinca-6\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Drag\u0103 Ilinca, (6) - Adame\u015ftii.ro\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Ieri a fost ziua \u00een care mi-ai spus, printre lacrimi \u0219i muci, c\u0103 tu nu vrei s\u0103 te duci acas\u0103, dup\u0103 \u0219coal\u0103. 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